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  • Dark editorial text card reading 'How were the last two months and seven days?' — a Women's Day post by Merlyn Mathias at callmeunfiltered.comWomen’s Day Roast: Same Cigarette | Call Me Unfiltered
    In #Merlunfiltered - The Visual Mess, Bold Roast
  • Illustration of a tall man seated at a lounge table with a woman beside him, holding whiskey and concluding a conversation, while others socialize around them.Vertical Gap in Relationships: Height vs Depth
    In Bold Roast
  • Funny caricature showing a manipulator surrounded by flying monkeys and cronies laughing, while an empathic person sits overwhelmed, symbolising manipulation, smear campaigns and cheap humour at someone else’s expenseCronies Flying Monkeys Manipulation: The Playbook
    In #Merlunfiltered - The Visual Mess
  • A quiet morning scene with coffee, cigarettes, and a phone on a table, showing how memes replacing conversation has become a form of silent distance.
    Buffering Diaries

    Memes Replacing Conversation: Choosing Yourself Over Silence

    January 17, 2026 /

    When memes replace conversations, silence becomes the easiest way to avoid showing up. This is about emotional dismissal, quiet endings, and choosing yourself instead.

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  • Cave bay in Vietnam with still water and rock walls opening into light, reflecting quiet isolation and depth.
    Buffering Diaries

    Mid-Sentence Goodbyes

    January 8, 2026 /

    Writing about friends who stayed, those who left kindly, and the quiet hurt of disappearing mid-sentence.

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  • Fractured self reflecting trauma and unacknowledged emotional wounds.
    Buffering Diaries,  Cuts and Cracks,  Unfiltered Letters

    When Silence Is the Wound: A Story of Emotional Abandonment

    July 13, 2025 /

    There’s a story I never let go of — not because I wanted to hold it, but because it never stopped holding me. I howled, not for saving, but for acknowledgment. What I got was silence. And maybe, just maybe, I did play the victim — but only to the one I hoped would finally see me.

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MERLYN MATHIAS

Truth-slinger. Word snob.
Chaos whisperer.
I don’t sugarcoat —
I serve the whole damn lemon.
Fueled by caffeine, side-eyes, and
2 a.m. honesty.
Too honest? Too bad.

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Recent Posts

  • Women’s Day Roast: Same Cigarette | Call Me Unfiltered
  • Vertical Gap in Relationships: Height vs Depth
  • Cronies Flying Monkeys Manipulation: The Playbook

Sections

  • #Merlunfiltered – The Visual Mess (21)
  • Bold Roast (26)
  • Buffering Diaries (36)
  • Cuts and Cracks (18)
  • Mangii Gossip Diaries (9)
  • My Highness Zoe (4)
  • Royal Furball Chronicles (2)
  • Unfiltered Letters (12)

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