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  • Dark editorial text card reading 'How were the last two months and seven days?' — a Women's Day post by Merlyn Mathias at callmeunfiltered.comWomen’s Day Roast: Same Cigarette | Call Me Unfiltered
    In #Merlunfiltered - The Visual Mess, Bold Roast
  • Illustration of a tall man seated at a lounge table with a woman beside him, holding whiskey and concluding a conversation, while others socialize around them.Vertical Gap in Relationships: Height vs Depth
    In Bold Roast
  • Funny caricature showing a manipulator surrounded by flying monkeys and cronies laughing, while an empathic person sits overwhelmed, symbolising manipulation, smear campaigns and cheap humour at someone else’s expenseCronies Flying Monkeys Manipulation: The Playbook
    In #Merlunfiltered - The Visual Mess
  • Illustration of a tall man seated at a lounge table with a woman beside him, holding whiskey and concluding a conversation, while others socialize around them.
    Bold Roast

    Vertical Gap in Relationships: Height vs Depth

    January 23, 2026 /

    He wanted to be written about. I wrote. What remains is the gap between scale and substance, served with whiskey, humour, and no apologies.

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  • Funny caricature showing a manipulator surrounded by flying monkeys and cronies laughing, while an empathic person sits overwhelmed, symbolising manipulation, smear campaigns and cheap humour at someone else’s expense
    #Merlunfiltered - The Visual Mess

    Cronies Flying Monkeys Manipulation: The Playbook

    January 17, 2026 /

    Manipulators don’t work alone. They recruit cronies, unleash flying monkeys, and turn someone’s empathy into entertainment. Applause does the rest.

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  • sleepless night with mosquitoes and dog
    #Merlunfiltered - The Visual Mess,  My Highness Zoe

    Sleepless Night With Mosquitoes: With Wings

    January 17, 2026 /

    A sleepless night, four mosquitoes, one dog, and the slow realisation that peace is a myth when you are warm, tired, and edible. A comedic essay on insomnia, survival, and being chosen by insects.

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  • Caricature of a chaotic Mangalore wedding baila with Western-dressed guests dancing wildly in a noisy church hall
    Mangii Gossip Diaries

    Mangalore Wedding Baila: Dearest Mangalore, Especially You, Church Hall

    January 12, 2026 /

    From my balcony in Mangalore, wedding baila thumps through the air, every toast, waltz, and forever looping like a badly mixed playlist I never asked for.

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  • Black coffee in a cup beside Chesterfield cigarettes, capturing a quiet morning ritual of caffeine, anxiety, and reflection.
    Buffering Diaries

    Coffee Isn’t My Fix. It’s the Ceasefire.

    January 9, 2026 /

    Coffee isn’t my fix. It’s a ceasefire between my nervous system and the day. A sharp, funny essay on mornings, anxiety, cigarettes, and performing stability.

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  • Cave bay in Vietnam with still water and rock walls opening into light, reflecting quiet isolation and depth.
    Buffering Diaries

    Mid-Sentence Goodbyes

    January 8, 2026 /

    Writing about friends who stayed, those who left kindly, and the quiet hurt of disappearing mid-sentence.

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  • An estuary where the sea meets dirt and debris, symbolizing the heavy stillness of anxiety.
    Buffering Diaries,  Cuts and Cracks

    Living With Anxiety — A Little Bit More Than Before

    October 17, 2025 /

    Even on the days I’m not so sure — this is for the ones who think healing is loud, and for the quiet battles fought behind held breaths. Anxiety doesn’t need a reason; it just needs space to be understood.

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  • 3 closets drawer filled with bras, highlighting the struggle of bra problems and finding the perfect fit.
    Bold Roast

    Bra Problems: Why We Own 3 Dozens but Wear Only a Few

    October 16, 2025 /

    I have a closet full of bras, yet I rotate only a handful. Some suffocate, some sit pretty like museum exhibits, and most are a daily reminder that comfort is a myth.

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  • Zoe with dog anxiety during fireworks on her daylight cloth.
    Buffering Diaries,  My Highness Zoe,  Royal Furball Chronicles

    Not Pause. Paws.

    August 31, 2025 /

    When firecrackers trigger Zoe’s anxiety, I realize her panic mirrors my own. This is what it means to live with overstimulation, tough hearts, and the weight of love.

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  • Not the story. Not anymore.
    Bold Roast,  Cuts and Cracks

    Cracking the Shell: Silence, Stability & Noise

    August 24, 2025 /

    Silence never saved me. My father asked for stability, my mother for provision, the industry for performance. None heard the noise inside. This is the crack I made.

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MERLYN MATHIAS

Truth-slinger. Word snob.
Chaos whisperer.
I don’t sugarcoat —
I serve the whole damn lemon.
Fueled by caffeine, side-eyes, and
2 a.m. honesty.
Too honest? Too bad.

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  • Women’s Day Roast: Same Cigarette | Call Me Unfiltered
  • Vertical Gap in Relationships: Height vs Depth
  • Cronies Flying Monkeys Manipulation: The Playbook

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